jnicoleadores asked: Hi! First of all, I want to say that I'm so happy to have found your blogs. I've enjoyed reading your posts and I've nodded and laughed out loud so much that my head hurts! I'm a lesbian Domme who has been in the life for several years and I still struggle to connect with other Dommes of color. Anyway, what advice would you give to a Domme that wants to go pro?
Thank you! I’ve stalked looked at your pictures on your blog and all I have to say is nomnomnomnomnom.
I can relate with the connecting of other dommes of color, it’s ridiculously annoying. The best advice that I can give any lifestyler going pro is to remember that this is business.
Learn the necessary skills, invest in the tools to perform, the tasks, find a house/or dungeon to work out of for safety reasons and always keep your personal life separate.
I feel like many lifestylers think that loads of submissive men (and women) are coming to see them when in fact it’s quite the opposite. You are performing a service for someone that has a fetish or kinky interest, it doesn’t make them submissive it makes them a client.
Everything else you’ll learn as you go!
Best of luck and have fun!
Very thankful for her advice. Check her out!